Enter Victoria's Vortex - Learn Why Vixen Queens Never Chase a Man

If you're chasing a guy — he’s not into you.

Men chase, women accept or decline the pursuit. PERIOD.

Let’s keep it real: you’re out here blowing up his phone, sending five texts in a row, planning your whole week around when he might be free? Girl, STOP. That’s not you stepping into your feminine power.

That’s you stepping out of your Vixen Queen power.

When you’re constantly:

  • Calling or texting him first…

  • Driving across town to see him…

  • Begging for his schedule like it’s some exclusive club…

  • Trying to pin him down for plans…

  • AND even offering your phone number to him when he didn’t even ask for it! (ummm hell no!)

That’s masculine energy, babe. Masculine energy is all about doing, initiating, chasing.

But guess what?

When it comes to relationships that's not the vibe you want

And honestly, it’s exhausting. You’re giving all your energy to someone who’s not giving anything back. (sheeeeeett F that!)

Here’s the dealio: Your Vixen Vibes are magnetic.

They attract;  they don’t pursue.

Think about it — does a Queen chase anyone down? Nope.

She holds court and people come to her.  She is warm, open and regal. 

She accepts or declines with grace and charisma 

That’s the vibe you need to channel. Why?

Because you’re a damn Queen — and Vixen Queens don’t chase.

When you chase, you’re telling him (and the universe) that you don’t think you’re worthy of being pursued.

That you’re not confident he’ll come to you willingly.

You’re handing him your crown and saying, “Your are the prize”- but that’s not how this works.

Instead, flip the script:

  • Lean back. Stop initiating. Plans, conversations all of it.

  • Focus on your own life — your hobbies, your friends, your goals.

  • Let him show you what he’s about. If he wants you, he’ll step up.

    If he doesn’t? He’s not your guy. 

When you’re in vixen energy, you become irresistible. Why?

Because confidence, feminine energy and ease are sexy.

You’re saying, “I know what I bring to the table”, and “I’m not begging anyone to sit at it.”

So the next time you feel tempted to send that double text or rearrange your schedule to fit his, remember this:

A man who’s truly interested will make it known. You won’t have to guess, and you definitely won’t have to chase.

Hold your head high, fix your crown, and step into your vortex.

because a Vixen Queen is a powerful and captivating archetype she blends bold, unapologetic confidence with regal femininity.

She embodies the essence of a woman who is both fierce and graceful, someone who exudes strength, sensuality, and authority in her own life…

in other words she chases NO MAN.-

Love,

xo Victoria🌹


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